Supporting Someone with Depression


Depression is a complex and challenging condition that affects millions of people worldwide. It can be difficult for the individual experiencing it, but also for their friends and loved ones. If you know someone who is dealing with depression, your support can make a huge difference in their journey towards recovery. In this week’s blog post, our ‘A Kind Place’ founder Sze Jin has offered five suggestions on how to help someone who is experiencing depression.

How you can help someone experiencing depression:

1. Be there for them

One of the most important things you can do for someone with depression is to offer them a compassionate listening ear. Be there for them and let them know that you’re there to listen, and then actually listen. Sometimes, all someone needs is a safe space where they express their thoughts, emotions or feelings. You can help provide this for them by listening and avoiding offering immediate solutions of advice. Be patient and let them set the pace of the conversation. 

2. Offer your presence

Depression can often make individuals feel isolated and alone, so you physical presence can be a great comfort. Invite your friend to spend time with you doing activities they enjoy, even if it’s as simple as watching a movie together, going for a walk or having a cup of coffee. Spending time together can help alleviate feelings of loneliness and provide a sense of normalcy. 

3. Encourage professional help

Whilst your support is valuable, it’s essential to encourage your friend to seek professional help. Counsellors and psychologists are trained to address the complexities of depression and provide effective treatments. Encouraging them to reach out for professional help is a significant step in their recovery.

4. Educate yourself about depression

Understanding depression and its effects can be immensely helpful in supporting your friend. Educate yourself about the condition, its symptoms, and treatment options. This knowledge will allow you to have more meaningful and informed conversations with your friends, and it can help you better empathise with what they are going through. The more you know, the better equipped you’ll be to provide support. 

5. Be patient

Depression can be a long and arduous battle. Your friend’s journey to recovery may have setbacks and moments of despair. It’s crucial to remain patient and non-judgmental throughout the process. Avoid telling them to “snap out of it” or questioning the validity of their feelings. Depression is a real and serious illness, and they need your support and understanding, not judgement and criticism. 

Supporting a friend with depression can be challenging, but your presence, patience and encouragement can make a significant difference in their life. Remember that you don’t need to have all the answers. Simply being there for your friend, listening without judgement, and encouraging them to seek professional help can be immensely helpful. 

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